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6 Ways To Not Suck

Because everyone needs to be reminded how not to suck....

I decided I needed to get a new pair of shoes.  The ones that I have are a couple years old and, quite frankly, a bit worn out.  So, I decided to head to the local ShoeEmporiumMart and get myself some shoes.  I knew exactly what I wanted...and in what section of the store to find it.  As I entered the store, I saw a couple customers browsing and 3 sales attendants by the cash register. 

As I stroll past them, one of them says, "Hi. I will be right with you."  Assuming she was discussing something important and required time to finish her discussion, I went on my own. 

Fine with me...I know what I want anyway.  I head over to the shoes I want and the specific shoe I am after is not on the shelf.  So, I hunt around for a couple minutes only to figure out that there is absolutely no rhyme or reason as to how these shoes are shelved...and decide I would "hunt down" that kind lady that said she would help me. 

After a minute or two of looking, I find her at the counter again chatting with the other two sales reps about her obviously too intense weekend of drunken debauchery.  I ask her if she knew where I could find my New Balance 820s in a 4E...and without even skipping a beat, she says to me and I quote...."I said I would be with you in a minute". 

I don't think I have to tell you what happened next.....

Suffice it to say that I got my shoes from FootLocker instead. 

You see...like this example, some aspects of your sales ability are painfully obvious to your customers.  But, some of them are much more subtle than this example...Subtle enough that you probably don't even know that you are doing them.  But, your clients know.  Believe me! 

So, here are some ‘subtle' and some not-so-subtle ways that you suck literally destroy your relationship (and your reputation) with your clients.

Be inaccessible.  One the primary complaints I receive from the clients I refer to agents is that the agent is hard to reach.  Heck, one of the major complaints I hear from other agents is that some agents are hard to reach.  Don't answer your phone.  And, when someone takes the time to leave a message, don't worry about calling back.  After all, if they want to reach you so bad, they will just call back, right? 

Talk more/listen less.  Youre the important one here.  Youre the expert.  What they have to say is not important at all because you have all the answers.

Be dishonest.  Nothing will turn off a client more than being dishonest.  The phrase ‘a web of lies' implies that it takes a lie to cover up a lie.  And another one to cover up that one and so on. 

Ignore simple manners.  Whether you like it or not, your manners matter to your clients.  Go ahead...keep your clients on hold.  Talk on your cell phone about nothing that relates to your clients that are standing right in front of you.  Use profanity and disrespectful language around your clients.  Say something negative about another client in the presence of one of your clients.  Go ahead...it's the truth, right?

Take "No" for an answer.  That's right...just give up.  Automatically assume that the client will never work out because you heard the word ‘No' the first time you contacted them.  After all, only the "serious" customers that are ready to go right now are worth your time.

Don't get to know your customers.  Ignore the important things in their lives.  Don't worry about birthdays or anniversaries.  Forget that they have 4 dogs they treat like children.  Ignore the fact that the ugly vase on the mantle is actually Great Grandpa George.  Don't get to know them on a personal level...its not required anyway.  After all, they are just walking dollar signs, right?

I would bet that 98% of the people that read this will already know why you shouldn't do these things and completely deny that they suck do any of them.

So, the next logical step in this conversation: Well, what should I do instead?

Simple. Dont suck.

BE ACCESSABLE!  Answer your phone whenever possible.  Reply to all messages and email within a maximum of 6 hours.  Make sure that your clients understand that you are there for them and that you appreciate the fact that they trusted you enough to want to contact you.

LISTEN!  You were given two ears and only one mouth.  That means you should listen twice as much as you talk.  Take the time to listen to your clients.  What they have to say is important to them.  Therefore, it MUST be important to you.  Ignore your rehearsed responses to standard objections and tailor them to fit the specific needs of your client's concerns.  Make them feel important...because they are!

BE HONEST!  Be honest to a fault, if need be.  In this market, clients need an advocate that is out for THEM not THEMSELVES.  Say what you mean.  Don't beat around the bush about facts that need to be said.  Even if what is needed is a smackdown...it would be better for you to do it and be honest about it than to be deceitful and then get caught in the lie later on.  You have one shot to build trust...don't blow it.

USE YOUR MANNERS!  For sales people that want to reach the top rung of the ladder, there is no substitute for patience, civility, and good old fashioned manners.  Say ‘please'.  Say ‘thank you'.  Make eye contact with people when they are speaking to you.  Open doors for people.  It sounds silly, but these things are not just marketing gimmicks designed to make a client happy.  They are the tried and true marks of good character.

FOLLOW UP!  Whether you want to believe it or not, sometimes "no" means "not right now".  I see this every day with my company.  Agents simply give up after the initial contact with a potential customer because they were told "no".  It has been proven time and again that it takes seven points of contact for a consumer to remember who you are and why you are trying to contact them.  So, it is up to you to ensure that happens.  Call your prospects.  Email your prospects.  Work your leads.  Don't just give up initially because you didn't get the answer you wanted on the initial request.  Sales isn't a McDonald's drive-thru.  You might have to ask more than once...or twice...or eight times.  I work with an agent currently that just landed an exclusive agency agreement on 35 properties because she followed up on a referral from my company that screamed at her on her initial phone call.  (If you want to hear the whole story, contact me...be happy to share.)

KNOW YOUR PEOPLE!  Notice I didn't use the word ‘client'.  I have said time and time again that this is a people business.  You deal with people.  And, they should be treated as such.  Get to know them on a personal level.  Use that to your advantage.  Remember their kids' names; their dog's name.  Ask about the things in their life that are important to them and make them important to you as well.  By the same token, allow them to get to know you.  Developing a rapport and trust is mutual.  It has always been true, you must be able to give before you are proven worthy to receive.  That rule holds true here also.

It is a hard and fast rule of business that it costs six times more money or time to cultivate a new client as it does to retain a current one.  And, in this market, I would bet it costs even more.  Extraordinary customer service skills will only lead to successful retention of your clientele.  And that will ensure that you dont suck.

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22 commentsClint Miller • January 20 2010 07:20AM

Comments

Clint: Good points, thanks for sharing. Regards,

Posted by Sara Miniman (Weichert Realtors/ NJ Estates Real Estate Group) about 1 month ago

Frank -- Thanks. Glad you liked it.

Posted by Clint Miller (Real Estate Client Referrals, LLC (RECR)) about 1 month ago

Yes! I agree, especially with the "talk less, listen more" .  As someone who worked in retail for a while and who shops a lot, I can relate to the shoe shop story.  Unfortunately, those people are not on commission and don't earn any more whether they sell the shoes or chat with their friends, so it doesn't matter to them.  But as realtors, we should know the difference.

Great post. Happy Wednesday morning to you!

Posted by Linda Jandura Realtor North Carolina Buyer & Seller Specialist (Raleigh Cary Realty) about 1 month ago

[she says to me and I quote...."I said I would be with you in a minute". ]

GASP! OMG. I would sooo be sending a terse e-mail to the Regional Mgr. for that company. 

There is no excuse for sucking in our business, and the minimum standards of practice are simple. GREAT post.

Posted by Candice A Donofrio, Broker Fort Mohave, AZ Txt 928-201-4242 about 1 month ago

Linda -- You hit the nail on the head. Nice work.

Candice -- Oh yeah, this fine young lady was unemployed by the end of the week. Im fairly certain I had everything to do with it. And, thank you so much for the kind words about the post. Much appreciated!

Posted by Clint Miller (Real Estate Client Referrals, LLC (RECR)) about 1 month ago

On the other hand, I like it when the salesperson backs off some. I've had them stand behind me while I'm looking over stuff and walk within 3 ft of me wherever I go in the store. I finally just tell them to back off or there will be no sale at all.

Posted by Jeffrey Smith about 1 month ago

You are absolutely right Clint.

Unfortunately, real estate attracts agents come from so many walks of life and brokers offer little professional training other than how to get the listing and close the deal. And who becomes the agency owner? Why the agents of course. A circle without growth.

As a consequence:

  • many agents will learn about real estate but precious little about human relations and being a sales professional.
  • our industry's evolution dealing with people lags most other industries.

 

Great post!

Posted by John B. Joseph (Groupe Sutton Centre-Ouest, Westmount) about 1 month ago

Clint,

Great Post. You are exactly right on how not to suck.

Thanks for sharing,

Matt Naumann

Posted by Matthew Naumann (Exit Realty Charleston Group) about 1 month ago

Well Clint was her minute up....LOL.  Do most stores think we have no choices in where to buy what we need?  I went through this a couple of weeks ago with Verizon and it didn't take me but 30 minutes to find another store that was more than happy to have my business. 

Posted by Cindy Jones-Northern Virginia Real Estate & Military Relocation Services (RE/MAX Allegiance #1 RE/MAX Company in the World) about 1 month ago

Jeffrey -- Sure, there is always the flip side to the coin...extremes exist everywhere. Ive never had that happen...but, ewwww....creepy. LOL

John -- Agreed, John. I hear jokes alot about unprofessional agents. Sad, but true...

Matt -- Thanks! Glad you liked the post.

Cindy -- She must have thought I would just bow at her feet because she was a hot, blonde, 20yo. OH, that reminds me....Alltel and I need to have a conversation. :-)

 

Posted by Clint Miller (Real Estate Client Referrals, LLC (RECR)) about 1 month ago

Clint, previous to real estate I owned/operated a retail establishment. You better believe my employees were trained to greet everyone who walked through the front door like that's who wrote their paycheck. Sounds like the lady at the shoe store needed a little direction! Thanks for the reminder...good old fashion "people" service.

Posted by Joe Cuchiara (Selley Group Real Estate, LLC) about 1 month ago

Joe -- Awesome call on the 'wrote their paycheck' line.....cause, they do! :-) Glad you liked the post.

Posted by Clint Miller (Real Estate Client Referrals, LLC (RECR)) about 1 month ago

Be honest! Who would have thunk people would have to be reminded to be honest! Lately, people have been giving me exuses, and in my book exuses are lies.

Posted by Dena Stevens ~ Associate Broker, Realtor,CSP, SFR (Colorado Western Real Estate) about 1 month ago

Dena -- I know! An excuse only lasts for so long before it becomes a crutch, in my mind. :-)

Posted by Clint Miller (Real Estate Client Referrals, LLC (RECR)) about 1 month ago

Clint it happened to me at Christmas. I went in a store at the mall looking for an ornament that would say, 1st year Christmas being married or something like that.

Two girls chatting away at the desk, I wandered the whole store.

Finally I went up and asked for help.

She pointed in the direction, never moving.

I left.

 

Posted by Missy Caulk-Ann Arbor- Realtor(R)- Ann Arbor Real Estate (Keller Williams-Ann Arbor) about 1 month ago

Missy -- Good call. ;-) One of them was probably the store manager. ;-)

Posted by Clint Miller (Real Estate Client Referrals, LLC (RECR)) about 1 month ago

Clint - Great post!  What you've written here seems painfully obvious, though obviously it's not painfully obvious, or you wouldn't have ended up at FootLocker.

 

The smallest things any of us do can make the biggest difference in what happens next.

Posted by Coleen DeGroff, MBA -- Your Gainesville FL Realtor (Coldwell Banker M.M. Parrish ) about 1 month ago

Coleen -- Thank you very much! There is an old Chinese proverb that says....Even the smallest pebble changes the path of the mighty river.

Posted by Clint Miller (Real Estate Client Referrals, LLC (RECR)) about 1 month ago

Clint ~ very well said.  It's all common sense.  Some of us can only use a reminder of this, but others need to be taught this.  Great post!

Posted by Dawn Fabiszak, CRS, GRI, CNE (Keller Williams Real Estate) about 1 month ago

Dawn -- Thank you so much! Glad you liked the post.

Posted by Clint Miller (Real Estate Client Referrals, LLC (RECR)) about 1 month ago

Clint....Fantastic Post. I am honored to have you as a fellow brother in I.D.S.!

Posted by Stephen Garner (Old Republic Title Agency. MyTitleGuy.Net (I.D.S.)) about 1 month ago

Stephen -- Thank you very much! ;-)

Posted by Clint Miller (Real Estate Client Referrals, LLC (RECR)) about 1 month ago

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